hey guys i have a few questions and i need some opinons

i already asked what i should get with $200 to lighten my front end.
i have an eastern ramrodder 2009
the parts that i would like to change weigh;
forks-40oz
bars-40oz
stem-16oz
seat-16oz-with the rails and the cup locking things that hook into post
post-8oz
my questions are;
would a eastern integrated headset work with my bike? i have a standard stock 1-1/8 headset unsealed right now.
demolition f1-lt stem,eastern decepticon, or one stem that you have or like?which one in your opinion is better?
i have 14mm drop outs in my forks.eastern hawkeye or one you would get or have?
i want all black seat or black with green in pivitol.
my friend makes pivitol posts so im good for now with a post
im keeping my bars.
now guys.keep in mind im trying to get forks.a stem.a seat.and a headset for 200. you can go a little over
this is my wishlist right now. but this is where you come in. i have never had nice parts. ive always run stock. i dont want to waste my money and im sure most of you may have good parts and have experience with them. constuct a danscomp wishlist and post it up. thanks guys. you have no idea how much you help (=

#470231A3APVTL	STOLEN P-BOSS PIVOTAL SEAT Black W/ Gang Green Base, $25.99	1	$25.99
	Please visit www.danscomp.com or call 1-888-888-3267 to order!!
#370112A1A53MM	DEMOLITION F-1 LT STEM Black, 53mm Reach, $56.99	1	$56.99
	Please visit www.danscomp.com or call 1-888-888-3267 to order!!
#301105BLK11/8	EASTERN INTEGRATED HEADSET Black, 1-1/8" (Campy Spec - 45deg/45deg), $19.99	1	$19.99
	Please visit www.danscomp.com or call 1-888-888-3267 to order!!
#353113A1A14MM	EASTERN HAWKEYE FORK Black, 14mm, $99.99	1	$99.99
	Please visit www.danscomp.com or call 1-888-888-3267 to order!!

ESTIMATED TAXABLE AMOUNT	$202.96
ESTIMATED TAX	$0.00
ESTIMATED ORDER TOTAL	$202.96

how can u post your wishlist or what ever? and if i were you id lighten it so the back is lighter but your front is even more lighter.